Social
media has created a whole new subset of people who lurk in the comment section
of the Internet. Anonymity is their weapon
as the wreak havoc and destruction by hurling mean spirited remarks and
responses throughout the social media world.
You’ve
seen these comments, not intended to add to the discussion in any real or
meaningful way, but simply to hurl their word vomit at all of us. My husband gets so infuriated when he reads their
remarks, and he insists on responding.
This is how they win; they provoke people. The problem is that no response will ever
matter or change their mind. A very wise
old saying reminds us that ‘you cannot reason with the unreasonable.’
These
people do not care who they hurt with their comments. They are simply bored and seeking
attention. Compare these trolls to a
three year old having a temper tantrum because their parent is not paying
attention to them. The best advice for
dealing with these trolls is to IGNORE them.
If they are in a public comment section just skip over their comment. Any response is fuel that stokes their fires
of hatred and ugliness. If a troll makes
a comment directly on your page, simply remove it. As Taylor Swift says, “haters gonna hate hate
hate.”
I agree and there is a very useful button marked block, mute or unfriend. Great article thanks
ReplyDeleteThanks Sally - I will never understand why some people simply want to be mean, but I am glad I can 'ignore' them.
DeleteI get quite enough of that on my own doorstep...... Since I am quite an acerbic writer anyway, a troll would have to be quite clever to outdo my own comments on my life, so there. When the immediate ire dies down, one ought to feel sorry for such a failure, that their only claim to fame is bad grammar & a desire for destruction. The phrase 'get a life' occurs.
ReplyDeleteAt least they noticed the article in the first place......